10 Qualities That Makes You, You?

We are all different in our own way and alike in so many ways.

Everyone has the opportunity to create their own future and a lot of where they go comes from who they are.

What are your top 10 Defining qualities that make you, you?

Mine are: 1. Compassionate

2. Forgiving

3. Loving

4. Understanding

5. Kind

6. Humorous

7. Giving

8. Thoughtful

9. Dependable

10. Opinionated

10 Qualities That Makes You, You Video

The Wrong Guy (Online Dating)

Online dating is so confusing sometimes. It never is very cut and dry. You kind of have to dig around until you find the one that isn't fake.

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The Wrong Guy (Online Dating)

Change

Change is a good thing overall in my opinion. I've changed a lot since I was a teenager. My tastes in food have changed, my style of clothes have changed, and my music choices have evolved. Over the years I grew to love food that I hated growing up. I disliked Cole Slaw but now I can eat it and actually enjoy it however there are some foods that I still don't enjoy such as peas lol. Growing up I hated clothes. I had no sense of style and I didn't care about it at all. I would probably preferred to go nude if I could but now that I'm a bit older I have begun looking for things that looked better and fitted tighter to my body. I guess that is because I know now that in order to find someone to want me I will have to look halfway decent. Music will always be a big part of my life. I love listening and singing to all kinds of different genres and always have but country was my genre of choice when growing up but I now gravitate to more pop/dance music. I still enjoy lots of country artists but my select favorites are much fewer now than they used to be. Pop music and dance music have such a feel good vibe to them and I enjoy being able to dance. I have a feeling though the older I get the more I will begin to go back to country because Pop music has become just so generic and country has not. A negative side to change over the years is the loss of good friends that I had during high school. I miss being able to see my friends and share so much about my life but since graduation we have all changed and we no longer know one another. I guess that happens with everyone but still it is sometimes difficult to accept. Many relationships fall apart from the very beginning of the relationship depending on the reasons they get together. It sometimes takes years for the problems to start to pop up but they often do because of change. People no longer need each other or love each other for the same reasons that they did before. It is kind of sad how change can bring some close but so many farther apart. Change is inevitable and will happen. We all have got to try to make the best of it and always share your love with the one you love because you never know if they will always be there.

My Opinion on Online Dating Apps

All of my previous relationships were formed from an online source. I remember when my first boyfriend and I got together that so many people frowned upon us due to the fact that we met through a social networking site called MySpace...(Remember that). Now a days there are so many people hooking up and meeting up for various different reasons and there are so many apps out there that make online dating easier such as Grindr, POF, Jack'd, Hornet, Adam4Adam, and many others. In my opinion these apps and services are a double edge sword. On one hand it makes meeting people easier that you may have otherwise never met or had enough courage to approach in real life but on the other hand it makes it so easy for people to cheat. It is like a dating app becomes like a candy store where people get tired of their old piece of candy and go searching for a new one and their are so many to choose from. So in a way I think it can damage the value of meeting someone and having a full healthy commitment but at the same time the opportunity would still arise for someone to cheat if they so choose with or without a app so honestly you can't blame the app entirely. These apps definitely help bring the real motive as to what people want to light. So many people put looking for a healthy relationship and when in reality they wanna just screw around. So in my opinion one must tread lightly and protect your heart whenever searching through online dating sites and don't spend all your time looking through them and look at what might be standing in front of you.

My Cover of Coat of Many Colors

This song has been such an inspiration for me growing up. My family wasn't rich and never has been but I can tell you that my family has always had so much love for one another and it didn't matter how much money we had.

Watch my cover of the song below.

My Cover of Coat of Many Colors

Favorite Singer

My favorite singer of all time is Shania Twian. I grew up listening to her music as a little child. Her Woman In Me album is the very first cassette tape I ever owned. I listened to that recorded over and over. I think I took a liking to Shania so much because she reminded me of my own mother. They both have very compassionate hearts and are fun to be around. When my Mom went through a pretty rough time in her life and was gone from me I took a lot of comfort in Shania's music as this reminded me so much of my own Mother. When she was going through her very public break up I as well was going through a five year break up. It was very difficult but as always I sought comfort in Shania Twain's music. Now she has made her comeback and is doing better than ever. I feel as though I am doing the same. So I guess I feel very connected with her on many different levels and I support her 100%.